The Art of Converting Yourself from a Threat to Others to Become a Thread that Connects Others | Global TV
NV Paulose, Chairman, Global TV +91 98441 82044
Conflicts and divisions often dominate the headlines in the world. There is a need for a subtle yet profound shift in this predominant attitude. A significant change in this approach can make a real difference in the world. But it has to happen at a micro level to make an impact of it in our lives. Meaning, we should make a change in the world around us to see its large reflection across the world.
We should make conscious attempts to embrace extreme simplicity as an innate attitude in our personal and professional life. We see in our daily lives so many stalwarts around us filled with humility and simplicity to the core. Copying them and coping up with their attitude and approach is the way forward to become a thread instead of becoming a threat to others unnecessarily.
See everyone as our kith and kin. This is taught in every faith in the world. Are we really faithful is a question that we should ask ourselves. Do we have faith in ourselves? Those who believe in themselves will also have respect for others and their faiths as well. Seeing everyone as our kith and kin means recognizing our shared humanity and feeling a deep connection and belonging with others.
Our mind set should inspire us to show empathy, compassion, and understanding, and to treat others with kindness, respect, and warmth, just as we would with our closest friends and family. This will help us in complementing others instead of unnecessarily competing with them. Such approach converts potential conflicts into opportunities for growth, understanding, and connection.
From Conflict to Complementarity
Complementarity is a mentality that seeks to find common ground and mutual benefit in every interaction, fostering a spirit of cooperation and unity. When we encounter differences or disagreements, our initial response is often to assert our own perspective, leading to polarization and further discords.
There is an opportunity for us to make a conscious choice to create a harmonious and inclusive environment just by choosing to complement with others. Choosing silence instead of making an attempt to silence others is the best choice that we can make in the world of conflicts and conflict resolution. Instead of turning back to fight with others, better we go ahead by allowing others to overtake us when and where they find it an opportunity to do so. As we go in a pace and rhythm with the times, we will see them slowing down to pace with us for sure.
The Power of Complementing Others
Complementing others involves seeking common ground and valuing diverse perspectives. By finding areas of shared interest or values, we can build bridges of understanding and connection. Additionally, recognizing the unique insights and strengths others bring allows us to learn from them and grow together.
Fostering open communication and embracing interdependence are also essential aspects of complementing others. By encouraging active listening and empathetic understanding, we can create a safe and supportive environment for constructive dialogue. Acknowledging that our individual successes are linked to the success of those around us helps us recognize the value of collaboration and mutual support, leading to stronger relationships and greater collective achievement.
The Power and Potential of Complementarity in Harnessing the Power of Unity and Diversity:
By adopting an attitude of complementarity, we can transform our interactions and relationships in profound ways. We can diffuse tension and transform potential conflicts into opportunities for growth, allowing us to build bridges between individuals and communities through shared understanding.
This, in turn, enables us to connect with others on a deeper level and foster a sense of unity. Complementarity unlocks creativity by combining diverse perspectives to generate innovative solutions. By embracing our differences and valuing the unique insights of others, we can create a culture of empathy, nurturing a sense of belonging and shared humanity. This culture allows us to thrive together, celebrating our individuality while recognizing our interconnectedness.
Guiding Principles for cultivating Complementarity:
To cultivate an attitude of complementarity, it’s essential to embrace a set of guiding principles. Practice self-awareness by recognizing your own strengths. Be willing to listen actively to others. Engage fully with their perspectives. Seek common ground by looking for areas of shared interest or values.
Embrace humility. Be open to learn from others. Adjust your approach. Foster a spirit of complementarity. Transform potential conflicts into opportunities for connection and growth. We have a greater role to play in the conflicting world where divisions often seem unbeatable. A subtle shift in our attitude can have a profound impact, fostering a culture of empathy, understanding, and harmony. After all, we are travellers on earth with a time span and space limit.
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