Quarrels are Troublesome | But they may make you strong | Stop Blame Game | Get into the Real Life | Value Values | Restore Genuine Communication | Get into the real world of Achievements and Outcomes | Connect and Prosper
By NV Paulose and Dr. Ruksana Hassan
Genuine Communication is the lifeblood of pure human relation. It can shape and strengthen our relationships. It can positively influence our emotions. It ultimately defines the quality of our lives. When communication becomes loose, disconnected, or filled with negativity, it can lead to a number of problems that affect individuals at a deep, often subconscious level. Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and other psychological approaches studies this phenomenon and aptly term the people involved as the “Victims of Loose Communication.”
The Blame Game Amongst Parent-Child Friction
One significant aspect of loose communication is evident in the relationships between parents and children. When there is friction and tension, communication tends to devolve into a blame game. Children, feeling misunderstood or unappreciated, may resort to blaming their parents for their problems, while parents, overwhelmed with stress, may inadvertently place blame on their children. This cycle of blame not only hinders effective communication but also creates emotional scars that can last a lifetime or until a genuine intervention. It is not that easy to come out from the troubles once you are into it. Particularly for the people who get into the secondary gains. They get stuck with the benefits of loose life.
Understanding the language patterns and communication styles becomes crucial in breaking this cycle. By fostering a more positive and empathetic communication environment, parents and children can bridge the gap, promoting mutual understanding and emotional well-being. There need to be an assertive intervention from one or more effective therapists for those who are seeking a way out from the pains of emotions and egos. Once resolved the relations flourishes and prosper.
The Impact of Disrespectful Comments in Spousal Relationships:
Loose communication may cause severe damages in marital relationships. Spouses who are engaged in disrespectful comments may unknowingly cause emotional disturbances and disorders in their entire family life. Words hold immense power, and when used carelessly or with mal-intent, they can erode the foundation of trust and love in a relationship. Disrespectful words get originated in the minds when we fail to understand the master plans. Those who believe in God and in the power of the universe will attempt to satisfy themselves without finding logical reasons and answers for anything and everything. They take things in a positive sense.
We should know the intentions before we commend on every action of others. The importance of choosing right words consciously is immense. Employ positive and effective language patterns. Foster open and respectful communication. Couples can create a nurturing environment by respecting each other. They strengthen their emotional bond and promote a healthy environment that supportive relationship.
Cultivating Genuine Communication and Appreciation
To break the chain and to restore genuine relations, one has to make lot of true introspections. Past is gone and it cannot be undone. We can but reframe our memories and make genuine resolutions that can set us free from the burdens of our past mistakes. One need to put a full stop to loose communication and its detrimental effects at once. Take a shift towards genuine communication.
Right decisions and determination is essential in resolving issues. Let appreciation become a regular affair in our homes. Acknowledge the strengths and efforts of those around us. Our words and language shapes our reality. Choose positive and affirming words to appreciate the significant people in the process. Create a more uplifting and harmonious environment. Stop blame game at once.
Better communication is vital to recognize and build our strengths. Therapists and mediators should help individuals and families to identify their unique qualities and leverage them to foster deeper connections. By focusing on strengths, we can create a positive cycle that enhances communication, understanding, and overall well-being. In fact, all that had happened in the past can be reverted back into great accomplishments in the future. Diamonds are polished with rough treatments.
We should make genuine communication a cornerstone of our relationships. By being mindful of our words, appreciating each other’s strengths, and fostering open dialogue, we can break free from the chains of loose communication, creating a foundation for healthier, more fulfilling connections. Resolve matters at the earliest and help generations to get into their life cycles effectively. Clear sky will help them to pilot their life into the horizons of prosperity and maturity.
