അച്ഛൻ രാമൻ ചെറുപ്പത്തിലേ മരിച്ചശേഷം ദാരിദ്ര്യത്തിനും കഷ്ടപ്പാടിനും നടുവിൽ ജീവിച്ചുതീർക്കുകയായിരുന്നു ആ അമ്മയും മൂന്നു മക്കളും. എങ്കിലും, അനർഹമായതൊന്നും കൈപ്പറ്റരുതെന്ന വലിയപാഠം പന്ന്യൻ യശോദയെന്ന അമ്മ മകന് പകർന്നുനൽകി.
Forward By James Mundattu
സഖാവ് പന്ന്യന്റെ വീടേതാ?’’ കക്കാട് സ്പിന്നിങ് മില്ലിനു സമീപം റോഡരികിൽ കണ്ടയാളോട് വഴി ചോദിച്ചു. ‘‘അതാ, ആ കാണുന്ന ബോർഡ് മൂപ്പരുടെ മോന്റെ വീട്ടിലേക്കുള്ളതാ. അയിന്റടുത്ത് തന്നെയാ മൂപ്പരെ വീടും. ആ റോഡിൽ കേറി ആരോടെങ്കിലും ചോയിച്ചാ മതി’’ -‘അഡ്വ. രൂപേഷ് പന്ന്യൻ’ എന്ന് എഴുതിയ ദിശാസൂചക ഫലകം ചൂണ്ടിക്കാട്ടി മറുപടിയെത്തി.
ആ ഇടറോഡിലെ ആളനക്കമുള്ള വീട്ടിൽ കയറി വീണ്ടും വഴിചോദിച്ചു. ‘‘ആദ്യത്തെ വീട് രവീന്ദ്രൻ സഖാവിന്റേത്. അപ്പറത്തേത് മോന്റെ.’’ അവർ കൈ ചൂണ്ടിക്കൊണ്ടു പറഞ്ഞു. ഏറെ പഴക്കം തോന്നിക്കുന്ന, ഏച്ചുകൂട്ടിയെടുത്ത പഴയ വീട്. വീട്ടുചുമർ തന്നെയാണ് റോഡിനെയും വീടിനെയും വേർതിരിക്കുന്നത്. പേരക്കുട്ടിയുടെ സൈക്കിൾ നിർത്തിയിടാനുള്ള മുറ്റംപോലുമില്ല. നാലു വർഷം തലസ്ഥാന നഗരിയുടെ എം.പിയായ, സി.പി.ഐയുടെ സംസ്ഥാന സെക്രട്ടറിയായ പന്ന്യൻ രവീന്ദ്രൻ എന്ന വലിയ മനുഷ്യന്റെ വീടാണിത്..!!!
ഞങ്ങൾ അവിടെനിന്ന് പരുങ്ങുന്നതു കണ്ട് വാതിൽ തുറന്ന് റോഡിലേക്ക് തലയിട്ട് വീട്ടുകാരി ചോദിച്ചു, ‘‘ആരാ?...’’ സഖാവ് പന്ന്യനെ കാണാൻ വന്നതാണെന്ന് പറഞ്ഞപ്പോൾ, വരൂ എന്നുപറഞ്ഞ് അവർ അകത്തേക്കു കയറി.പിന്നാലെ കൈലിമുണ്ടും കൈയില്ലാ ബനിയനും ഇട്ട്, ചിരിച്ചുകൊണ്ട് പന്ന്യൻ പുറത്തുവന്ന് ഞങ്ങളെ സ്വീകരിച്ചു.
രണ്ടു മണിക്കൂർ നീണ്ടു പന്ന്യനുമായി കൂടിക്കാഴ്ച. അദ്ദേഹം പറഞ്ഞതിൽ ഏറെയും അമ്മയെക്കുറിച്ചായിരുന്നു, എത്ര പറഞ്ഞിട്ടും മതിവരാത്തതുപോലെ. ഓലമേഞ്ഞ, ചോർന്നൊലിക്കുന്ന മൺവീട്ടിൽ കുഞ്ഞുരവീന്ദ്രനെ ആ അമ്മ ചേർത്തുപിടിക്കുന്നത് ആ പന്ന്യന്റെ വാക്കുകളിലൂടെ കണ്ടു.
അച്ഛൻ രാമൻ ചെറുപ്പത്തിലേ മരിച്ചശേഷം ദാരിദ്ര്യത്തിനും കഷ്ടപ്പാടിനും നടുവിൽ ജീവിച്ചുതീർക്കുകയായിരുന്നു ആ അമ്മയും മൂന്നു മക്കളും. എങ്കിലും, അനർഹമായതൊന്നും കൈപ്പറ്റരുതെന്ന വലിയപാഠം പന്ന്യൻ യശോദയെന്ന അമ്മ മകന് പകർന്നുനൽകി. അതിന്റെ ഉദാഹരണമാണ് കൊടുംപട്ടിണിയിൽ പോലും സന്തോഷസൂചകമായി ലഭിച്ച 5000 രൂപ സ്വീകരിക്കാൻ അനുവദിക്കാതെ തിരിച്ചേൽപിച്ച സംഭവം.
പന്ന്യന്റെ വാക്കുകളിലേക്ക്: ‘വിവിധ തൊഴിലാളി യൂണിയനുകളുടെ സെക്രട്ടറി ചുമതല എന്നെ പാർട്ടി ഏൽപിച്ചിരുന്നു. ഒരിക്കൽ ഫിഷറീസ് ഡിപ്പാർട്മെന്റ് ജീവനക്കാരുടെ യൂണിയൻ സെക്രട്ടറിയായിരിക്കെ, അവർക്ക് വാർഷിക ബോണസ് കിട്ടി. എന്റെ നേതൃത്വത്തിൽ തൊഴിലാളികൾ നന്നായി വിലപേശിയതിനാൽ ഏറ്റവും ഉയർന്ന ബോണസായിരുന്നു അക്കൊല്ലം ലഭിച്ചത്.
ഇതിന്റെ സന്തോഷസൂചകമായി അവർ ചെറിയ തുക പിരിവിട്ട് 5000 രൂപയും കുറച്ച് സാധനങ്ങളുമായി വീട്ടിൽ വന്നു. അന്നു രാത്രി അമ്മ എന്നെ അടുത്ത് വിളിച്ചു ചേർത്തുനിർത്തി പറഞ്ഞു: ‘‘ആ പൈസ നമുക്ക് വേണ്ട. അർഹതപ്പെട്ടതല്ല. അത് തൊഴിലാളികളുടെ വിയർപ്പാണ്. തിരിച്ചുകൊടുത്തേക്കണം. അനർഹമായതൊന്നും നമുക്ക് വേണ്ട."
ആ തുക തൊഴിലാളികൾക്ക് തിരിച്ചുനൽകി. പിന്നീട് ഇന്നുവരെ ഞാൻ എനിക്ക് അർഹതപ്പെട്ടതല്ലാത്ത ഒരു തുകയും ആരിൽനിന്നും കൈപ്പറ്റിയിട്ടില്ല. ഗൾഫ് സന്ദർശനവേളകളിൽപോലും ലഭിക്കുന്ന ഗിഫ്റ്റുകൾ ഞാൻ സ്വീകരിക്കാറില്ല. അത് എന്റെ നിലപാടാണ്. എന്റെ പൊതുപ്രവർത്തനത്തെ മുന്നോട്ടുനയിക്കുന്ന നിലപാട്.
A Konkani Cinema at the DC South Asian Film Festival in America The Konkani Film ‘Osmitay’, Produced by Mandd Sobhann, will be Screened at AMC Theatre in America’s Washington DC on December 2nd at 11 am during the DC South Asian Film Festival – 2023.
Mandd Sobhann has produced this movie with the Motto ‘A Movie to a Movement’, and more than 400 Shows of Osmitay have been screened in India, UAE, Kuwait, Bahrain, Saudi Arabia, Oman, Qatar, England, Ireland, Australia, New Zealand, USA and Canada since its release on September 15th. Many more screenings are being planned in Mumbai, Bangalore and other cities in India, as well as in other Countries. Osmitay is being screened at 5:00 pm at Bharath Cinemas, Mangalore for a record 10th week. This truly is a great milestone in Konkani Cinema.
Set against the backdrop of the Konkani people’s quest for identity, this captivating story unfolds the narrative of migration from Goa and showcases the visual splendour of Konkani’s rich folk heritage, all woven into a tender love story penned by Eric Ozario with the screenplay and dialogues written by Joel Pereira. Vilas Ratnakar Kshatriya has Directed the Movie. The scenic beauty of the coast, hills, and Goa is captured by cinematographer Balaraja Gowda and edited by Mavin Joel Pinto.
The film’s soulful melodies are composed by the talented quartet of Alwyn Fernandes, Cajetan Dias, Joel Pereira, and Eric Ozario, featuring the renowned singer Nihal Tauro and an array of talented vocalists. The cast includes stellar performances by Denis Monteiro, Ashwin DCosta, Wencita Dias, Prince Jacob, Sayish Panandikar, Gaurish Vernekar, Stany Alvares, Nellu Permannur, Sunil Siddi, Lulu Fortes, Naveen Lobo, and other renowned artists from Mangalore and Goa. Notably, around 500 other talented actors make their debut with this Film.
“The sword above your head can become your wings and help you to fly high” | 5 Step Learnings in Anger Transformation
By NV Paulose and Dr. Ruksana Hassan
Anger is a dynamic force within us, often seen as a double-edged sword. Yet, when harnessed with mindfulness and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) techniques, it has the potential to propel us towards positive transformation and growth.
1. The Positive Side of Anger:
Anger as Motivation:
When properly expressed, anger can serve as a catalyst for positive change. Well-managed anger becomes a driving force that motivates individuals to make constructive decisions and embrace personal development.
The Physical Manifestation:
Uncontrolled anger triggers the body’s ‘fight or flight’ response, flooding it with stress hormones. However, understanding and channeling this energy can sharpen focus, elevate mood, and even lead to increased physical activity.
2. Strategies for Healthy Expression:
Empowerment through Understanding:
Recognize and accept anger as a normal and integral part of life. Identifying the root cause is crucial. Once understood, explore different strategies to address the underlying issues.
Physical Outlet for Emotional Release:
Engaging in physical activities like debate on general topics of interest, getting into leisure activities that are rejuvenating and refreshing etc. will provide a healthy outlet for anger to disappear. It not only dispels the excess energy but also contributes to your overall well-being.
The Power of Communication:
Talking to a trusted friends or a mentoring group about your feelings can be transformative. Open, honest communication serves as a bridge to understand you and to find solace with long lasting resolutions.
3. Navigating the Pitfalls:
Avoiding Explosions and Suppression:
NLP emphasizes the importance of meticulously steering explosive anger into positive directions instead of suppressing it. We should focus on the ways in which we express our emotions. Reframe them in constructive ways. Explosive anger can isolate individuals. Suppressed anger may lead to depression and anxiety.
Dealing with Arguments Positively:
Arguments are inevitable. Converting them into positive probing is the way to make friends out of your longtime enemies. Taking a non-threatening facial approach resolves many issues in relationship management. It will lead into tremendous personal growth and organizational transformation.
Make sure you approach disagreements with a calm behavior. Seek solutions from others wholeheartedly. It opens up all doors to develop stronger relationships. It will help you and everyone around you to step into a more positive outlook on life.
4. Long-Term NLP Strategies:
Anger Diary for Self-Discovery:
Keep a diary to track anger patterns, promoting self-awareness. Understanding the ‘how’ and ‘why’ of anger is the first step toward positive change.
Empowerment through Assertiveness:
Consider assertiveness training to enhance communication skills and express feelings confidently, yet respectfully.
Mind-Body Harmony:
Explore relaxation techniques such as meditation or yoga to create harmony between mind and body. Seeking guidance from a therapist, counselor or psychologist can be helpful in addressing past events that may still evoke anger.
5. Nurturing Positive Expression in Children:
Leading by Example:
Children learn from their surroundings. Demonstrate healthy anger expression through positive communication and problem-solving.
Encouraging Emotional Intelligence:
Teach children that anger is a natural emotion, encouraging them to express it appropriately. Foster an environment of open communication and respect for their feelings.
Empowering Through Consequences:
Differentiate between aggression and appropriately expressed anger. Establish consequences for harmful behavior while reinforcing positive outlets for emotional release.
Embracing anger as a force for positive change is a journey towards personal growth. Through NLP techniques and mindful practices, we can transform the sword of anger into wings that allow us to fly to new heights of understanding, empathy, and self-discovery. Anger when transformed becomes your power to make others to embrace you and to work with you more enthusiastically.
Kick Start for Christmas 2023 celebrations by adding spirit to the cake mixing ceremony | Seasons Joy began | Now it is time for Celebrations towards Christmas and Happy New Year | Global TV
Speech by Mr. GN Girish Vice President, The Ocean Pearl Hotels
Good evening and a very warm welcome to everyone present. Thank you so much for joining us today for this cake mixing ceremony. We hold this event annually at The Ocean Pearl because we love being a part of celebrations happening all around us. If there’s a reason to celebrate life anywhere in the world, my team is always ready to create something special for every occasion.
As many of you are familiar with the cake mixing ceremony and its history, it originated in Europe in the 17th century. During the harvest season, an abundance of fruits and dry fruits would be harvested and used to create the delicious plum cake. Now, you might wonder why we add alcohol. Well, as the saying goes, life needs a spirit. For the cake to last for several months, acting as a preservative, alcohol plays a crucial role. It not only provides a kick but also takes care of the technical aspects of cake mixing.
At The Ocean Pearl, the Christmas season is the perfect time for creativity. When we engage in this cake mixing ceremony, the spirit of Christmas permeates through society. The anticipation of Christmas celebrations starts right from the day we mix the cake. So, my team and the kitchen have a significant task ahead until the 31st of December.
Every day, various types of cooking and preparations take place in the kitchen. To infuse the kitchen with great energy, we commence with this cake mixing ceremony. The same cake that we mix today will be prepared, baked, and delivered to all of you after 20 days. What you mix today will embody the spirit and sweetness that each one of you brings to this gathering.
Beyond today, on the 23rd, 24th, and 25th, my team will spread the Christmas cheer across Mangalore with a chariot, wishing everyone a Merry Christmas and Happy Christmas. On the 24th, we’ll host a brunch and a candlelight dinner. Then, on the 25th, a lavish buffet with turkey, sweets, and European dishes prepared by my team will be served. For this Christmas season, these special delicacies are our way of spreading joy.
I appreciate all of you for being here today to bless my team. Your presence provides them with the special energy needed to do a wonderful job throughout the month of December. If you want to experience genuine, heartfelt Christmas celebrations in Mangalore, I invite all of you to visit The Ocean Pearl during the Christmas season. You will feel like you are in Europe and in Mangalore simultaneously.
At The Ocean Pearl, we celebrate every festival—Diwali, Ramzan, Christmas—with the aim of celebrating life and spreading love. Thank you all for attending this cake mixing ceremony. Once the cake is ready, we will certainly send it to all your residences. Now, let’s continue the festive spirit with a small high tea that we have organized. I hope you all enjoy it. Thank you very much!
The Joyful Tradition of Cake Mixing Ceremonies: Sweet Celebrations
The cake mixing ceremony is a delightful and symbolic celebration of joyous occasions. Rooted in history and laden with tradition, this ceremony has become a popular and cherished custom, especially in the context of weddings and festive seasons. The cake mixing ceremony has its roots in European traditions, where the act of mixing ingredients for a Christmas fruitcake was considered a communal and joyful event. Over time, this practice evolved and found its way into various cultures and celebrations, gaining popularity for its festive and social nature.
Cake mixing ceremonies are often associated with the notion of prosperity and good luck. The ingredients used in the mixing process, including dried fruits, nuts, and spices, are believed to bring abundance and happiness to the upcoming celebration.
The ceremony provides an opportunity for friends and family to come together and actively participate in the preparations for the upcoming event. The shared experience fosters a sense of community and strengthens bonds among the participants.
Cake mixing is not merely a culinary task; it’s a celebration in itself. The excitement of combining various ingredients and the aromatic blend of spices create an atmosphere of anticipation and joy, setting the stage for the festivities to come.
Typically conducted a few weeks or months before the main event, the cake mixing ceremony involves a gathering of individuals who actively participate in the process of combining the ingredients. The ingredients, often comprising dried fruits, nuts, spices, and liquor, are meticulously mixed and soaked. Participants, dressed in festive attire, use their hands or utensils to blend the ingredients, infusing the mixture with the essence of celebration.
The cake mixing ceremony serves as a joyful and meaningful celebration, infusing the air with the spirit of festivity. As a tradition that transcends cultural boundaries, it has become a cherished practice that not only symbolizes good fortune but also creates lasting memories for those involved. So, the next time you witness or participate in a cake mixing ceremony, savor the moment and relish the anticipation of the sweet celebrations that lie ahead.
Embracing Accountability leads into A Transformative Path taking you to Enlightenment and Personal Empowerment
By Dr. CP Habeeb Rahman
Everyone look forward for personal growth and a meaningful life. How much success each one achieve is based on how effective each work for it along with many other aspects. Accountability is one aspect that stands out as an essential guiding principle achieving success in life. It is a concept very easy to understand and assimilate. It goes beyond religious affiliations and speaks to the very essence of humanity. When we ponder a little further, we get connect with the principle of accountability which holds the power to shape our character and lead us towards enlightenment. Our thoughts, actions and deliberations transform automatically.
Accountability is practiced in various faiths and ethical traditions in many ways and methods. In Islam, it is central theme of the faith and belief. Each individual will be held accountable for their actions, intentions, and even for their thoughts in the Day of Judgment. Accountability serves as an inspiration to cultivate positive and righteous thinking. Our innermost thoughts have significance and impact.
Positive thoughts drive us to take positive actions. It overcome challenges and contributes positively to our communities. Nurturing positive thoughts makes us accountable not just to ourselves, but also to the world around us. We realize that our choices have far-reaching consequences that affect others and the environment.
Every decision we make, every action we take, and even our thoughts have consequences in the journey of life. It is important to know about accountability, which holds us responsible for our deeds and intentions. Embracing accountability is not just about facing the consequences of our actions. It shapes our character and leads us towards a transformed path of truth, dynamism and positivity.
Accountability guides us towards a life of integrity. Accountability influences every aspect of our life. It is a reminder to us that even our thoughts have significance. We should practice and also train our children to cultivate positive and righteous thinking. Islamic teachings encourage believers to let truth be their guiding principle. It promotes integrity and sincerity in all actions. Accountability means being aware of one’s responsibilities towards oneself, fellow human beings, and to the environment. The sense of accountability fosters a culture of compassion, empathy, and service to others. Positive thinking has transformative power. It influences our actions and interactions with others.
We have the opportunity to shape our own destinies. We can influence the world around us through our thoughts and actions. Positive thoughts are not mere wishful thinking; they drive us towards constructive solutions and inspire us to overcome challenges. Nurture positive thoughts. Become more accountable to yourself and to the community. Your choices impact others and the environment.
Power of Truth and the Perspective of Truth in various traditions:
The pursuit of truth is a universal principle found in various religious traditions. In our journey of accountability, truth serves as a guiding light, illuminating our path towards righteousness. Truth is not only about being honest with others but also about being honest with ourselves and our positive thoughts. It involves nurturing a positive mind by acknowledging our mistakes, every time when it occurs, seeking forgiveness, and committing ourselves to move in the right path. Islam insists very much on accountability. It is the force that makes us responsible to the core.
All religions embrace the light of truth. The power of truth enables us to build trust and authenticity in our relationships. It empowers us to take responsibility for our actions and the impact we have on the lives of those around us. Compassion, justice, and responsibility towards oneself and others are the outcomes.
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Embracing accountability as a shared ethical path unites society in their quest for personal and collective growth. We should recognize that we are interconnected beings. Our actions reflect throughout society. Accountability becomes a unifying force. It transcends boundaries. It brings humanity together in pursuit of a better world. We stand at the threshold of an exciting journey filled with choices and responsibilities. Embracing accountability means acknowledging the power we hold in our hands to shape our lives and the lives of others. Even our thoughts carry the potential to shape our actions and impact our surroundings.
Every individual should make a conscious commitment to foster positive thoughts and move towards the guiding light of truth. Embracing accountability empowers us to lead lives of integrity, compassion, and empathy. As we embark on journey on earth, we should always remember accountability as a source of empowerment. It guides us towards enlightenment and a shared path of positive change.
Together, we can make our ways brighter and create a more compassionate world that has care and concern for everyone. Truth and accountability are the beacons guiding us towards a future filled with hope and understanding.
Message to the Youth:
The youth should recognize their potential to mold their future while impacting the world around them with their thoughts and actions. Future and its success come with great responsibility. In Islam, accountability is a central and empowering concept. We believe in the Day of Judgment, where each individual will be held accountable for their actions, intentions, and yes, even their innermost thoughts.
This should not be a source of fear, but rather an inspiration to cultivate positive and righteous thinking patterns. Positive thoughts are not empty fantasies. They have transformative power. They inspire us to take positive actions, to overcome challenges, and to contribute positively to our communities. By nurturing positive thoughts, we become accountable to ourselves and the world around us.
We should recognize that your choices impact others and the environment. Truth is the guiding light that illuminates the path of accountability. Seeking and embracing the truth is not only about being honest with others but also about being honest with ourselves. Truth and Accountability are the two basic pillars of growth.
The principle of accountability and the pursuit of truth are present in various faiths and ethical traditions. Embracing accountability empowers us to lead lives of integrity, compassion, and empathy. It guides us towards enlightenment and a shared path of positive change. The youth stand at the threshold of an exciting journey filled with choices and responsibilities. Embrace accountability. Recognize the power you hold to shape your lives and the lives of others. Your thoughts, words, and actions matter. Let the guiding principle of truth light your way. Be accountable for your deeds, intentions, and thoughts. Stand strong in your commitment to personal growth and the betterment of society. Together, we can pave the way for a brighter, more compassionate world. When you embrace the path, the world stands with you, inspired by the light you will bring to it.
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Embracing Paradigm Shifts: Transforming Perspectives in Life
By Dr. CP Habeeb Rahman
Paradigm shifts are fundamental changes in the way we perceive and understand the world around us. They often occur unexpectedly.A paradigm shift can alter our lives in profound ways. The concept of paradigm shifts can be explained through real-life examples.It will help you to understand their impact on individuals.
Stephen R. Covey, the world famous author was personally known to me. We had very close communications on various topics. Some of our comments had become paradigm shift for other’s thought process and perspectives. One important topic of our communication was about the oneness of God. Below sited is but another story from his famous book”The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.” This story will give a very clear picture about what paradigm shift means about.
Paradigm Shift:
Stephen R. Covey recounts a paradigm shift that occurred during one of his train journeys. He observed a seemingly inattentive father allowing his children to run around and disturbing the fellow travellers. It was leading Covey to make an initial judgment about the parenting skills of that person. A fellow passenger revealed then that the children had lost their motherand the man his wife, a few hours back.
A paradigm shift took place in Covey’s perspectiveand approach to the person instantly by hearing the story. He learned his judgments were based on incomplete information. This story highlights how paradigm shiftshappen in our perspectivesand about how it can transform our understanding and interactions with others.
Paradigm Shift happens in everyone’s Life:
Paradigm shifts are an integral part of the human experience.Paradigm shifts will make profound impact in all aspects of our lives. Major life events such as the birth of a child, marriage, academic achievements, and career milestones can lead to positive paradigm shifts. These events reshape our goals, values, and priorities.
On the other side, traumatic experiences like the loss of a loved one, exam failures, business setbacks, or betrayal by someone can trigger negative paradigm shifts. An individual encounter these shiftsat various turning points in life. Paradigm shifts transformtheir worldviews, life mission, priorities, and sometimes entire life.
Paradigm Shift in Islam: The Story of the Prophet
There are only few events in the human history that have had triggered profound societal transformations like the paradigm shift brought about by the advent of Islam. We can trace the entire history of Islam as an outcome of paradigm shifts experienced initially by few individuals.
Astonishingly, Prophet Muhammad was not the first one to experience a paradigm shift about the divine calling that would change the course of entire history of human kind. It was Waraqah, who was a Christian and knowledgeable about the scriptures to experience the paradigm shift first.
Read!
The first words of the revelation were, “Iqra!” which means “Read!” or “Recite!” Muhammad, startled and confused, responded that he could not read. The angel repeated the command three times, each time Muhammad gave the same response.
After the third repetition, the angel Gabriel revealed the first verses, “Read in the name of your Lord who created. Created man from a clinging substance.Read, and your Lord is the most Generous – Who taught by the pen – Taught man that which he knew not.”
After the first experience with the angel Gabriel in the Cave of Hira, the Prophet Muhammad was initially filled with awe and confusion. He was deeply affected by the experience and didn’t fully understand the significance of what had just happened. He returned home to his wife, Khadijah, and shared his experience with her.
Khadijah consulted her cousin Waraqah ibn Nawfal, who was a Christian and knowledgeable about the scriptures.It was a paradigm shift for him first.
Waraqah ibn Nawfal confirmed that the angel Gabriel’s visit to Muhammad was a sign of his prophet hood. We can see a chain of paradigm shift happening thereafter in the life of millions of people. Reading and reflection are the basic tenets that lead us into paradigm shifts. Certain experiences can also give us the experience of paradigm shift. Do we prepare us for it is the question?Everyone experienced had a paradigm shift. Do you really experience the power your faith?
Chain of Paradigm Shifts
HamzaibnAbd al-Muttalib, the Prophet’s paternal uncle experienced the paradigm shift.He became fearless supporter of Islam.Hamza’sparadigm shift and defense of the faith against external threats marked a significant shift in his life and the emerging Muslim community.
Another major paradigm shift was that of Omar, a staunch opponent who became a staunch believer and protector of the Prophet.Umar ibn Al-Khattab, commonly known as Umar, had a Paradigm Shift from being a staunch opponent of Islam to one of its most devoted and influential supporters.
Prior to his paradigm shift to Islam, Umar was a strong and vocal opponent of the new faith introduced by the Prophet Muhammad in Mecca. He openly opposed the message of Islam and, at times, was hostile to the early Muslims.
One day, Umar decided to take matters into his own hands. He set out with the intention of confronting and possibly harming the Prophet Muhammad, who was openly preaching the message of Islam. Umar’s sister and her husband had already embraced Islam. He confronted them about their faith. This revelation had a profound impact on him. He decided to visit the Prophet Muhammad. Upon meeting the Prophet and hearing verses from the Quran, Umar experienced a paradigm shift in his heart.
He became a devoted follower of the Prophet Muhammad and embraced Islam wholeheartedly.
Umar’s conversion was a paradigm shift in Islamic history as such. His strong personality, leadership qualities, and firm commitment to the faith made him an invaluable asset to the Muslim community. He went on to become the second caliph of Islam after the death of the Prophet Muhammad.
His contributions to the early Islamic community were significant. Umar’s transformation from a staunch opponent of Islam to one of its most influential figures is a testament to the power of paradigm shift in one life.
Paradigm Shift in Your Life:
Paradigm shifts are transformative moments in our lives, challenging our existing beliefs and reshaping our perceptions. The stories of Stephen R. Covey, the Prophet Muhammad, and his early followers demonstrate how a change in perspective can lead to profound personal and societal changes. Embracing paradigm shifts allows us to grow, evolve, and develop anopen-minded outlook.
It will lead youinto a richer and more fulfilling life. It is a reminder that paradigm shiftsarenatural part of our journey.It is our response to the call that defines our development and growth as individuals.The advent of Islam is subsequent to the paradigm shiftin the life of Prophet Muhammad.
It can make a paradigm shift in your life as well. Revelations can happen at any time in anyone’s life.
Quarrels are Troublesome | But they may make you strong | Stop Blame Game | Get into the Real Life | Value Values | Restore Genuine Communication | Get into the real world of Achievements and Outcomes | Connect and Prosper
By NV Paulose and Dr. Ruksana Hassan
Genuine Communication is the lifeblood of pure human relation. It can shape and strengthen our relationships. It can positively influence our emotions. It ultimately defines the quality of our lives. When communication becomes loose, disconnected, or filled with negativity, it can lead to a number of problems that affect individuals at a deep, often subconscious level. Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and other psychological approaches studies this phenomenon and aptly term the people involved as the “Victims of Loose Communication.”
The Blame Game Amongst Parent-Child Friction
One significant aspect of loose communication is evident in the relationships between parents and children. When there is friction and tension, communication tends to devolve into a blame game. Children, feeling misunderstood or unappreciated, may resort to blaming their parents for their problems, while parents, overwhelmed with stress, may inadvertently place blame on their children. This cycle of blame not only hinders effective communication but also creates emotional scars that can last a lifetime or until a genuine intervention. It is not that easy to come out from the troubles once you are into it. Particularly for the people who get into the secondary gains. They get stuck with the benefits of loose life.
Understanding the language patterns and communication styles becomes crucial in breaking this cycle. By fostering a more positive and empathetic communication environment, parents and children can bridge the gap, promoting mutual understanding and emotional well-being. There need to be an assertive intervention from one or more effective therapists for those who are seeking a way out from the pains of emotions and egos. Once resolved the relations flourishes and prosper.
The Impact of Disrespectful Comments in Spousal Relationships:
Loose communication may cause severe damages in marital relationships. Spouses who are engaged in disrespectful comments may unknowingly cause emotional disturbances and disorders in their entire family life. Words hold immense power, and when used carelessly or with mal-intent, they can erode the foundation of trust and love in a relationship. Disrespectful words get originated in the minds when we fail to understand the master plans. Those who believe in God and in the power of the universe will attempt to satisfy themselves without finding logical reasons and answers for anything and everything. They take things in a positive sense.
We should know the intentions before we commend on every action of others. The importance of choosing right words consciously is immense. Employ positive and effective language patterns. Foster open and respectful communication. Couples can create a nurturing environment by respecting each other. They strengthen their emotional bond and promote a healthy environment that supportive relationship.
Cultivating Genuine Communication and Appreciation
To break the chain and to restore genuine relations, one has to make lot of true introspections. Past is gone and it cannot be undone. We can but reframe our memories and make genuine resolutions that can set us free from the burdens of our past mistakes. One need to put a full stop to loose communication and its detrimental effects at once. Take a shift towards genuine communication.
Right decisions and determination is essential in resolving issues. Let appreciation become a regular affair in our homes. Acknowledge the strengths and efforts of those around us. Our words and language shapes our reality. Choose positive and affirming words to appreciate the significant people in the process. Create a more uplifting and harmonious environment. Stop blame game at once.
Better communication is vital to recognize and build our strengths. Therapists and mediators should help individuals and families to identify their unique qualities and leverage them to foster deeper connections. By focusing on strengths, we can create a positive cycle that enhances communication, understanding, and overall well-being. In fact, all that had happened in the past can be reverted back into great accomplishments in the future. Diamonds are polished with rough treatments.
We should make genuine communication a cornerstone of our relationships. By being mindful of our words, appreciating each other’s strengths, and fostering open dialogue, we can break free from the chains of loose communication, creating a foundation for healthier, more fulfilling connections. Resolve matters at the earliest and help generations to get into their life cycles effectively. Clear sky will help them to pilot their life into the horizons of prosperity and maturity.
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JCI Mangaluru Samrat Installs JC Deepa Rao as President for the Year 2024
Mangaluru, November 20: In a splendid ceremony held at Hotel AJ Grand on November 18, Young Entrepreneur JC Deepa Rao was officially installed as the new President of JCI Mangaluru Samrat for the year 2024.
The chief guest for the event, Mr. Rohan Monteiro, CMD of Rohan Corporation, took the opportunity to launch two new startup companies, ‘Santrupti’ and ‘Elevate 360 Marketing.’ These initiatives, spearheaded by JC members, aim to contribute to the entrepreneurial ecosystem. Mr. Monteiro also announced the collaboration between Rohan Corporation and JCI Mangaluru Samrat to provide life Skills Development Training to students in 50 schools. Addressing the gathering, he emphasized the crucial role organizations like JCI play in preparing the youth to face life’s challenges, fostering independence, and self-reliance. “Talents are abundant, but leadership skills are lacking, and JCI is bridging this gap,” he remarked.
The guests of honor, Mr. Kuberappa Jigali, Asst. Gen. Manager – HRA, Solara Active Pharma, and JFM Deepak Raj, ZVP Elect, Zone XV, JCI India, acknowledged the commendable activities undertaken by JCI Mangaluru Samrat in the past. They extended their best wishes for the organization’s future endeavors.
The outgoing President, JC Anush Chandra, administered the oath to the incoming President, JC Deepa Rao. JC Anush Chandra expressed his satisfaction with the achievements during his term and thanked his team for their support. In her acceptance speech, the newly installed President, JC Deepa Rao, elaborated on her journey within JCI and expressed confidence in leading the Local Organization (LO) to new heights with the collective support of all members.
Founder President JC Dr. Raghavendra Holla, along with Past Presidents JC Umesh Naganavalachil, JC Tini D’Costa, JC Karthik, JC Akshatha, JC Sumana Polali, and JC Veena, graced the occasion.
The newly elected team of office bearers for the upcoming term includes:
President: JC Deepa Rao, Immediate Past President: JC Anush Chandra, Secretary: Varun Prabhu, Treasurer: Shravan Kumar, Joint Secretary: Alwyn, VP LO: Yathish, VP Training: Vikram Nayak, VP Program: Pooja Rao, VP G&D: Swathi, VP Business: Shareef, VP PR & Marketing: Ananya Rao, Director LO: Vijesh, Director Training: Varsha Shetty, Director Program: Mahesh Mayya, Director G&D: Supriya, Director Business: Suhas, , Director PR & Marketing: Canute J Pinto.
The newly installed team is poised to continue the legacy of JCI Mangaluru Samrat and contribute significantly to the development of the local community.
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